Let’s say you run into an acquaintance who — naturally — asks you how you are. When is it okay to say how you’re really feeling — even if the answer is “I’m feeling sort of blah” or even “I’m ecstatic because I got a raise?” When is it better to just say something polite and move on — vs. expressing what’s actually on your mind?
For most of us our conversational baseline is “How ya doin’?” followed by “Fine” or —
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Ok, I admit it… I used to spy on people. I fancied myself a regular Harriet the Spy, and I even had a spy route. But I was only 10.
When I matured, I knew that spying was wrong… so I gave it up. And took on “observing.” Same behavior, different label.
I don’t go into anybody’s private business. I don’t read mail that’s not for me. I don’t do dumpster-diving for financial information. I just pay attention.
And one thing I’ve noticed is that you can tell a lot about somebody by what they read.
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I almost never watch television. People sometimes wonder what I DO with myself without watching shows and sports on television. I love to read; I love to explore; I go on road trips; I like to go to museums and galleries and hang out with friends and do puzzles and cook and — well, frankly — sit in silence.
The American way is to go into one’s home in the evening and watch things, often with alcohol in hand and often alone.
… Read more Live vs. Televised
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